How to be sexy

Oh my gosh, have you ever played bondage games? It's completely addictive. Really, it's like being kids but in the "grown up" way. The first time you ever do it will feel a little silly at first but since you get into it, you find a groove to flow with and all your acting will fall into place fairly easily. You can discover your kinky twist of mind. Think bondage, all the way.

The first time you play bondage games, the awkwardness is created by a lack of knowing what to do,. It's like being an actor in a play and not knowing your lines. each partner will have a role and if you establish at the beginning what your role is, your sex game will be much easier.

The most typical game is something like dominant and submissive, but even then you'll have to find yourself a role. Exactly to what extent will your sex game be? You will need to discuss this beforehand so you can find your place.

My biggest suggestion is to get drunk before you play, I did this and it really makes the whole thing much easier. If you are not really the submissive type and you get drunk, you can juts act the role. Get your partner to pull your hair and do whatever and imagine yourself in a some drunken orgy college movie, it's a great act to play. Another wonderful reason for all this erotic play while being drunk is that you won't feel any pain! Also you wont have to worry about saying something stupid because it won't matter, you'll be too wasted to really understand anyway. All it will be is you, some bondage gear, lots of booze and a big erotic sex play. You;ll be so horny as you "explore" each other's bodies, but with a kinky twist.


Don't for forget to load up on bondage gear. It's pretty much an essential item for any sort of sex game you play. It will also make it much easier. Good ol' handcuffs and a whip or paddle or something like that.


Do you have no idea where to start? How about watching bondage porn. If you rent or get Video on demand online make sure you search for bondage films that are the same game you want to play. This is the best way to get an ideas of what sort of role you will want to play in tour sex game.


Here is a fun plot: The man is a pizza delivery guy and the woman is going to seduce him into the room and tie him up to take advantage of him. So the door bell rings and she answers the door naked. She is an older, hot cougar type. He is young and un experienced. He is so amazed that she answered the door naked, he has no idea, he juts stands there with his mouth wide open. She pulls him in and instantly starts grabbing his ass and kissing him. The she rips off his clothes and starts sucking on his nipples. He likes it. She moves him over the couch. He has no idea that she is a bondage freak at all...

She continues to seduce him and holds his hands up, only to grab the wrist cuffs at hat are sitting on the ledge above her. He has no idea what's happening as she ties him up. then he squirms bit and says "what's going on!" then she puts a ball gag in his mouth and gives him a blow job. He likes it but is scared at the same time. Them she spanks him a little bit. To be extra extra kinky, get a masturbation sleeve, she adds some lubricant to the sleeve and squeezes it over his penis. She jerks him off with the masturbation sleeve. All the while, he is absolutely stunned by all of this. She punishes him for coming too soon, stupid young man, so he gets spanked some more..

I'll leave off my story there because that's only my idea. That's what I did, pretend like it's a movie plot but you have to establish your sexy roles beforehand. It will be erotic, sensual and super fun, trust me once you play bondage, you'll be hooked for the rest of your life!

Summer is upon us and many women try to squeeze into last years's bathing suit only to discover that oh-my-gosh, they have grown a size!

Not to fear, we all grow and change. Diets work and diets fail but this is not what this article is about. I am going to speak about how not try try to squeeze in last year's bathing suit! It's an article with bitterness, I think that I speak for everyone when I say that a big, gross show when you see a bursting muffin top or armpit wrinkles spitting out of your bathing suit!

When a woman tries to squeeze into a too-small suit, it's really obvious that she's fat. When she wears a suit that fits, she looks full-figured. It's all a matter of perspective really. Speaking from the point of view of the large girl, I gained weight and feel a little less sexy this summer then last year. So I will squeeze in last years's suit to try to look the same size. Sure I have a muffin top but will anybody really notice? YES!! The secret is to get a swim suit that fits. Go up from a size 8 from a size 4 if you have to because hate people on the beach don;t remember what you look like last year. They know what you look like now. Go in all your sexy glory as a full figured woman is a bathing suit that fits.

It's funny how women think that becuase they can do up their belt one extra notch that they have a slimmer waist. It's a big optical illusion becuase they are not very sexy, no one carses that their waist is one notch smaller. They think they are all that but in fact it's really gross with huge fat rolls hanging over their pants. That is very noticeable, so wear clothes that fit and men will like you, women won't be grossed out and you will feel more feminine and proper, sexy and elegant.

 Let's all think about the winder of America's next top model, Whitney. Have you ever seen her have back fat? No, because she wears clothes that fit! Be sexy and confident in your skin no matter what your size and you will always look good if you wear clothes that fit!

Love lasts a lifetime, but certain body parts don't! If you and your husband have been experiencing difficulty in your sex life, consult your physician about erectile dysfunction cures. Don't be shy because you are not alone. It is a side effect of aging, your erection become weaker and some men develop impotence.

I cannot stress enough, do not be shy about these issues, think about it this way, are you willing to sacrifice your sex life because you cannot swallow your pride for one afternoon on a doctor's visit? A doctor is professional and they are trained to help men with these types of problems.

Do not think you are the only one. This article is talking to thousands upon thousands of men who dream about satisfying their wives like they used to but are afraid of impotence and performance issues that are a result of aging. It is so common, the only tragedy on it all is when men do nothing because they fear their pride.

In the golden years, sex is just as important as in the younger days. Talk to your doctor, he may suggest a simple cure like a penis vacuum pump which help you to get an erection by forcing blood in the penis. Penis pumps are not for enlarging the penis and they really do work for erection help. The sex toy industry has ruined the penis pump's image by making it seem like snake oil or a pointless device. Learn how penis pumps work and of course, get the advice of your doctor first.

There are solutions beyond this to help men with erectile dysfunction and erection problems, like penis rings and even pills. never buy pills of the internet, you never know what you are getting. Get them prescribed from your doctor, never take a pill where you don't know the source. In the end, your sex life and intimate life with your wife is more important then your pride, please her like you used to. There are ways, consult your physician and get your sex drive back up to match your wife, then who knows, maybe you two can even embark on your second honeymoon and enjoy sensual passion again!

At some point in your life, you'll want to re-live your college spring break days. Since you might feel out of place being 40 years old and in the midst of twentysomethings partying it up on Miami beach, you might need to think of another plan. Consider a adult vacation.

This will make you feel like you are on spring break again, a rejuvination for the soul, mind and body. Rev up your sexual beast inside and by promiscous with yourself and your partner. If you do not have a significant other, then you can add an escort into the mix, why not?

There are adult vacations that cater to singles, offering you a sexy woman to be your companion and to pamper you. It would probably be cheaper to do this sort of adult vacation then to get an escort to accompany you on your travels, I'm not sure becuase I am not an escort nor do I know any, but according to my estimate, it would be cheaper to go to a sex destination and vacation there with an escort then to bring one along with you.
Allow yourself the naughtiest weekend ever and enjoy your youth deep down inside! You only live once! Re-live spring break again! BUT make sure to bring condoms just to be on the safe side...

Everyone know about aphrodisiacs. The pheromones are the most common - and controversial. pheromones are a natural attractant that induces sexual thoughts in both men and women. There are pheromone colognes that target both women and men. Scientific studies have not concluded their effects, it could be a placebo, but really there is nothing wrong with that. Placebo is just as strong as the real thing. So you may know you are wearing pheromone cologne but the ladies you are trying to attract do not.

I really don't think that this is magic potion, because a woman will be attracted to you based on part personality and part looks. If you believe in it or if you are curious, sure try some pheromone cologne and if it works, then start a blog professing how well it worked!

When it comes to being sexy. attraction is a very big part of it. Try yummy scented lotion and body spray. perfume tends to be too strong when trying to get close to someone. especially if they are going to be nibbling on your neck, the taste will be very strong whereas body spray's taste is less intense. If you are going to lick your neck, why not prevent the bad taste and do not put scented anything on your neck! try putting on your hairline, this way there is an unlikely chance that they will lick your hair line!

Another great place to dab your scented aphrodisiac potion is just underneath the armpits Not in the armpit because you don't wan to interfere with your deodorant, but just below so that the smell flows upwards.

Try cooking a meal based entirely on an aphrodisiac recipe, you should have your lover hungry for you in no tiem. Check out the sexy recipes for a romantic dinner.

Another overlooked aphrodisiac is sold by online adult shops . This love potion is massage oils and lotions. the smell is such a big part of being turned on. Even though some oils are edible, i would not advise to drink it like soda. They are usually made up of sugar, however not all of them are.

Actually, you want to get massage oil that is not sugary because it will leave a stocky residue over the skin. try and go for an all natural blend like to popular Kama Sutra massage oil. massage oils can be picked up at any romance store or even your local adult shop. Speaking of adult shop, another thing to incorporate into your aphrodisiac box is an adult novelty toy like a vibrator , but that's a whole different topic all together!

Another popular aphrodisiac is oysters but not everyone loves that and realistically, it is not very sexy to feed each other oysters! here is a list of some common aphrodisiac foods that you two could feed each other. The list of phallic food combines a few of the more common traits that cause a food to be labeled as an aphrodisiac.

First, the food may be phallic shaped. second, there may be chemical that occur naturally in food that create a calming response when smelled or eaten. calming is associated with mood enhancing and therefore can be considered an aphrodisiac. Finally, the food can cause the blood to rush faster, such as food with spice. Spicy foods make blood flow faster which in turn creates sexual arousal.

Here are some more common aphrodisiac foods:
-Bananas
-Chocolate
-Avocado
-Oysters
-Vanilla
-Wine
-Raspberries

- Tease and tempt with berries, feed them to your lover like a Greek God -

You might have heard the joke that goes:


A woman decided to surprise her lover by wearing a pair of crotchless panties and sitting on the bed wearing only that. When her lover walked in the door after a hard day's work and went into the bedroom, he saw his naked wife sitting on the bed wearing only the crotch less g-string, he looked at his wife with an odd glare.

She said:

"Hey baby, don't you want me so bad now?"

He said:

"No way, look what it did to your panties!"

HAHA!


All jokes aside, a pair of crotch less panties a very naughty thing. For the woman, they are not very practical at all, actually, they are counterproductive! The secret is that they look like regular panties and there is a small slit that is crotchless, this allows for easy access. It is like wearing a skirt, the man can slip his hand up her skirt and get easy access, this is the same deal.

Why are crotchless panties great?

The panties offer the perfect access. great for spontaneous situations like sex in an elevator. You can hike up the skirt and he can enter you without too much fixing afterwards. If you need a quickie then the crotchless thong is the way to go. Another great way to seduce your lover, he can slip it for quick finger at a second's notice. It will give him the upper hand, men like being able to turn on women and by fondling you, we can turn you on pretty much whenever he wants, no need to remove underwear.

Here's a great surprise for your lover: Wear a mini skirt and crotchless thing. Don't tell him that they are crotchless. Lift up your skirt like you are flashing him. He will have a quick glimpse of your thong and get really hot, did he just see what he think he saw? Your lips poking out from a pair of lacy lingerie? Why yes! He will come running' after you do you better have a bed nearby! Make sure you have your sex toy box, some lube and a box of condoms ready to go!

Another way to tease him is to wear a mini and the panties and take his hand and lead it up your skirt. Stick his finger in between your lips and he will be amazed that he is making direct contact with you. A delightfully fun way to seduce your lover.

Another great reason to wear crotchless panties is that is you shave your pubic hair and maybe you've been to busy and have fallen behind on your trim, then you can hide your pubic hair overgrowth and still be sexy! Also perfect to hide razor stubble.

After reading these tips on seducing your lover with crotchless panties, why would you pass on this chance to be a sexy, sexy vixen! Get a crotchless g-string today from your favorite lingerie store or even your favorite sex toy store and be sexier the ever before!